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Loving Heart Connections®

Spiritual Connection

Developed by Dr. Jane V. Bissler · Stewardship of Desirée

Love Knows No Distance.

Beloved — channeled painting by Celine Slater

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Build the Bridge

A Spiritual Communication
& Connection System

Loving Heart Connections® is an evolving spiritual, energetic, self-healing system — a communication and connection system designed to establish a bridge between you and a Loved One in Spirit, your Spiritual Guidance, and your very soul. Whether you’ve lost a child, a parent, a partner, or a friend — this system was designed for you.

The healing comes from within you, facilitated by Desirée through a SPIRIT-given system designed to open pathways of communication that are yours to keep.

How the system works →

Loving Heart Connections® uses bilateral stimulation utilizing specific eye movements, sound, and touch to build the bridge of connection, the bridge of reunion, the bridge of forgiveness, the bridge of understanding, the bridge of remembrance, the bridge of wisdom.

Developed by Dr. Jane V. Bissler to assist parents grieving the loss of a child, this beautiful modality has blossomed into one that supports anyone who has experienced any type of loss, and assists with connecting with Spiritual Guidance and the soul to help navigate our learning, our development, our experiences, our journeys, and soul expansion.

We know it takes courage to reach out — to hope that connection is still possible.
You are seen here. You are welcome here.
And you don’t have to take this step alone.

Who You Can Connect With

Loved Ones in Spirit

Children, parents, partners, siblings, friends — anyone who has crossed over. Reconnect, communicate, and continue the relationship.

Your Spiritual Guidance

Masters, angels, teachers, and helpers who walk with you. Build a direct line of communication with those who guide your path.

Your Ancestors

Those who came before you — your lineage, your heritage, your bloodline. Connect with ancestral wisdom and healing that spans generations.

Your Soul

The very essence of who you are. Access wisdom, purpose, and truth that lives within the deepest part of your being.

Every connection deepens what was never truly lost.

The Bridges You Build

Each session opens a pathway — a bridge — between you and those in Spirit. Through bilateral stimulation, these bridges are built, strengthened, and made yours to keep.

Connection
Establish the link between you and those in Spirit
Reunion
Experience the presence of your Loved One again
Forgiveness
Release what has been held between you
Understanding
Gain clarity on what was left unspoken
Remembrance
Honor the bonds that death cannot dissolve
Wisdom
Receive guidance for your journey forward

Why not make connections? Why not make it your life purpose to have connections? Why not be provided with the grace of those who love you unconditionally? Why not accept the learning from the higher orders?

— SADO · SADO Circle Programs™, Session #50, March 28, 2024

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“The brokenhearted are those who feel separated from SPIRIT, from the ONE. That separation does not exist. The separation from one’s loved ones, child, and physical family members also does not exist. Our foundation and our platform regarding this must be well understood.”

— SADO · Awakening: Book 1

Your Experience

What to Expect

Whether this is your first time exploring spirit communication or you’ve been drawn to this work for years, Desirée walks with you every step of the way.

Before

Before Your Session

A brief call or email exchange with Desirée to go over any questions you have.

During

Building Your Bridge

Desirée will go over every step and answer any questions you have along the way as you build your bridge of connection and communication. Desirée works with you as you work with your Spiritual Guidance Team to create the protected space for your session.

The Connection

Your Moment

You’re guided to build your bridge — you may hear, feel, see, or simply know your loved one’s presence. Every experience is unique.

After

Yours to Keep — For Life

You receive your recording and the tools to continue the bonds on your own, for life.

The Heart of the Work

Continuing the Bonds

During your session, you will learn how to use Loving Heart Connections® to build this bridge — to maintain and continue the bonds after your session is closed. This allows for a unique opportunity for growth and development for you AND for your Loved One in Spirit.

By continuing the bonds we have, we offer one another the space for forgiveness, for love, for understanding. Having the ability to continue active relationships — whether with a Loved One in Spirit, our Spiritual Guidance, or the very essence of who we are, the soul — is the very core of this modality.

Build the bridge. Trust.
Build the bonds. Grow.
Continue the bonds. Heal.

What you build in a Loving Heart Connections® session is yours — for the rest of your life. The bridges, the bonds, the connection.
Yours to keep.

Working with Desirée

Your Session

All Loving Heart Connections® sessions are facilitated by Desirée — via Zoom. Each session is recorded and provided to you.

Initial Session — $200
90–120 minutes
This is where your bridge is built. Your first facilitated session provides the activations, downloads, and SPIRIT-protected connection you need to begin communicating directly — for the rest of your life. Recording provided.
Follow-Up Session — $125
Up to 60 minutes
Deepen your connections, receive additional healing and guidance, and strengthen your ability to work through Loving Heart Connections® independently. One session can be sufficient, but additional sessions are available for further support.
Community Practice

Group Practice Sessions

Desirée offers weekly group sessions for those who have experienced a Loving Heart Connections® session — a space to ask questions, receive information, and work with others using the system. Supported by Q-sort research releasing with the book, September 2026.

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Experiences

What Others Have Shared

Coming September 2026

The First Book on Loving Heart Connections®

Featuring the Q-sort research results, the story of how this SPIRIT-given system came to be, and the voices of those whose lives this work has changed. Written by Dr. Jane V. Bissler and Desirée.

Learn More About the Book →
Origin + Stewardship

About Loving Heart Connections®

Developed by Dr. Jane V. Bissler — retired licensed clinical counselor, past president of the Association for Death Education and Counseling, and co-author of four books on grief. Desirée, trained by Dr. Bissler since 2013, became owner and operator in 2023 — selected by SPIRIT to carry this work forward.

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Developed by Dr. Jane V. Bissler

Dr. Jane V. Bissler — retired licensed clinical counselor (Ph.D., LPCC-S, FT), past president of the Association for Death Education and Counseling, and co-author of four books on grief — devoted her career to one central truth: that love does not end at death. Her clinical specialty was among the most tender in all of counseling: parents grieving the death of a child.

Over more than three decades in clinical practice, Jane served families through Counseling for Wellness and Kelly's Grief Center, taught graduate-level courses at Kent State University, and wrote a weekly newspaper column on grief for twenty-five years. She co-authored four books on grief and loss, was elected president of the Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC), and earned the designation of Fellow in Thanatology (FT) — one of the highest recognitions in the field.

It was this work — sitting with the deepest losses imaginable — that led Jane to the intersection of clinical practice and spiritual healing, and ultimately to the development of Loving Heart Connections®. Her legacy lives on in the facilitators she trained, the families she served, and in the system she created.

Stewardship of Desirée

Desirée has trained with Dr. Bissler since 2013 — trained to use, facilitate, and teach Loving Heart Connections® under Jane's direct guidance and mentorship.

When Dr. Bissler retired from clinical practice, SPIRIT selected Desirée to carry this work forward — to teach others, facilitate connections, and steward the system's continued evolution. Desirée has been charged with channeling the updates to the live and evolving system.

A message from Dr. Jane V. Bissler →

Loving Heart Connections® was developed through SPIRIT. As a licensed Ph.D. level mental health clinical counselor specializing in grief and working mostly with parents whose adolescent children died suddenly, I was using trauma therapy to help relieve my clients' devastating grief responses. One of those therapies was Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). The training, practicum and supervision of this protocol is intense and prepares the clinician well for the trauma processing their clients will experience.

Beginning in 1997 or 1998 several of my clients, with whom I was using EMDR to help them with their grief trauma, began to spontaneously have after death communications with their children and loved ones. These experiences were happening within the EMDR protocol. Talking with my EMDR supervisor, I found this was a unique happening and she had no experience with it. However, it seemed like a miracle as my clients were very relieved by their experiences and came back to the office to reconnect and revisit with their deceased children and loved ones numerous times. This was done through and within the EMDR protocol. I began to notice that the full protocol seemed unnecessary as my clients were no longer dealing with the trauma of their loss but joyfully connecting with their loved ones.

I believe SPIRIT provided the information of exactly what was needed to help my clients have these experiences. Through this guidance, and over the years, Loving Heart Connections® morphed into the modality it is today.

It is NOT EMDR. It is NOT IADC. Both of those modalities work to help clients release trauma. Loving Heart Connections® was developed to provide direct personal communication between the client and their Spiritual Guidance, High Selves, ancestors, deceased loved ones, and recently their inner self or Soul.

It is a modality that is facilitated and taught by trained energy workers and mental health providers directly to the client. There is no reason to have a session from a different modality before experiencing Loving Heart Connections®. If you are being asked to do so, please inquire as to why, as according to SPIRIT it is not necessary at this time. It is designed to be used by the client on an ongoing basis to be in contact with spiritual energy at the time of the client's choosing. Bilateral stimulation, used in both EMDR and Loving Heart Connections®, is the one common element.

— Jane Vair Bissler, Ph.D., LPCC-S, FT

MysticMag Interview with Dr. Jane V. Bissler
Learn Loving Heart Connections®

Training Available

Training is available for those who wish to learn Loving Heart Connections® — to facilitate for clients or to add to your existing practice. Desirée personally mentors each student through the training process.

For Energy Workers

Add Loving Heart Connections® to your healing practice. Learn to facilitate connections for your clients and guide them in building their own bridges.

For Licensed Healthcare Professionals

Integrate Loving Heart Connections® into your clinical practice. A powerful complement for counselors, therapists, and providers working with grief, loss, and spiritual wellness.

Once you’ve built your bridge, the connection is yours — to deepen, to strengthen, to carry forward.

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The more you use Loving Heart Connections®, the more you gain.

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